About Encourager

Johan Miller is an Ordained Minister, Author, Teacher, Inspirational Speaker, Core Health Process Facilitator, Intuitive, Listener, Action Taker who loves to have fun with all of it all in ‘divine play.’ http://www.goldenspiral.org

Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets people make on their deathbed

For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives. People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality.
I learnt never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of emotions, as expected, denial, fear, anger, remorse, more denial and eventually acceptance. Every single patient found their peace before they departed though, every one of them.

When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again. Here are the most common five:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
This was the most common regret of all. When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never
became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a
result.

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical
details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end.
That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.
This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again. When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.

Source :http://www.ariseindiaforum.org/nurse-reveals-the-top-5-regrets-people-make-on-their-deathbed/

Anita Moorjani’s Near Death Experience Reveals Truth

At the point that Anita “crossed over” she found revelation. In this first video she speaks of that moment and the revelation.

Anita then returned again into this world with a clearer understanding of her life and purpose on earth. This understanding subsequently led to a total recovery of her health.

She is the embodiment of the truth that we all have the inner power and wisdom to overcome even life’s most adverse situations, as she is the living proof of this possibility.

This second video is the complete interview by Lilou, of Juicy Living, of Anita Moorjani’s Near Death Experience:

Ten Ways To Make Peace With The Past and Create A New Future

Everyone comes into life with a purpose. You are a unique expression of the universal life force at the foundation of your physical form. Spirit guides you from the moment your life begins, and the people and events of your life reflect your spirit’s journey. No one else ever has or will affect the world as you do. With every act, word or thought, you are adding to All-That-Is.

Your family is your first and most influential bond. What you learn from them colors the the way you see yourself and the world. As a child, your physical helplessness makes you dependent on the people closest to you for survival. Too often those relationships are destructive instead of supportive. The family you join already has tendencies: patterns, beliefs, and attitudes which they expect you to share. Going along gets you what you need, so you adapt to fit in. But when you ignore your instincts, you don’t feel right. You create the opposite of what you intend.

The good news is you don’t have to be a victim of your upbringing. Although a dysfunctional family can crush your self-esteem, confuse you, and wreck your relationships, the distortion of your natural instincts can be reversed. Your problems can show you what you don’t want and inspire you to go after what you’d rather have, so you can set yourself free to become the person you want to be and create the life you dream of.

Surviving a dysfunctional family doesn’t necessarily mean getting along better with your relatives. You make peace with the past by treating difficult situations, thoughts, and feelings as opportunities to unravel the knots in your heart and mind that keep you from realizing your dreams. You create a new future by drawing on your innate wisdom to help you overcome obstacles and achieve your goals. When you do your best, you tap into a power that’s been within you all along, in even the worst circumstances, even when you weren’t aware of it.

No matter what happens, trust that what you go through will enlighten you. Don’t be discouraged. The most important thing is dedication to trying new things and learning from your experience. Change doesn’t happen overnight it comes little by little, more and more, deepening your ability to love, create, and make a difference personally and in society.

Here are ten ways to spark change in your life and relationships:

1. SET A NEW COURSE: Finding your own preferences

Your new course is first an internal one, which paves the way for external changes. If you’re not satisfied with your life as it is, start by imagining that it can get better. What happens in your life is largely up to you, so make it a priority to figure out how to create what you want. Take time every day to think about what you want. Be willing to try new things. Pay close attention to ideas and feelings that light you up. Courage is accepting reality as it is and working with it to create what you want. Allow yourself to feel excited about your possibilities. What youdedicate yourself to, you can create.

2. TRUST YOUR INTUITION: Tapping into your inner wisdom

When you hear the “little voice of wisdom” inside, listen. Within you is a guidance system that makes itself known through your ideas and emotions. Trust it. Life can be confusing, and some people do try to manipulate you in devious ways. If something doesn’t feel right, it may mean that it’s not for you. Wonder about why not, and what you’d like instead. Give yourself the benefit of the doubt. Your instinct leads you to where you need to go at the perfect moment for the best results. Stand your ground. Believe in yourself in the face of criticism. No one else can tell you what you need or want. Have good intentions. Don’t second-guess yourself. Do what you think is best at the moment.

3. LOOK FOR A SILVER LINING: Developing a positive attitude

Spirit underlies everything. You are part of the universal creative energy. You didn’t come here to prove your worth or to find a problem and fix it. You came to express your talents and abilities, to realize your dreams. What you experience depends on how you look at it. How you interpret things plays a large part in shaping your behavior and how others treat you. Search for the positive. Focusing on the negative dulls your energy and ability to cope. No matter how bad a situation seems, find something in it to appreciate. Ask yourself, what good could come from this? What can I learn here? The answers you get show you what to do next. You already have inside you the resources to make peace with the past and create a new future. You just have to learn how to use them.

4. TAKE A STEP BACK: Separating motivation from unconscious patterns

Be on the lookout for destructive habitual patterns. Noticing is the first step to breaking them. Don’t fight them, just observe your thoughts and feelings. The deeper you go, the more you unravel the stuck places in your heart and mind. Bring spirit into the process by inviting metaphysical help in any form that works for you. Be influenced by others’ opinions only if they inspire you. Criticism may be only an automatic response based in the critic’s own fears. You don’t have to convince anyone of your right to have your life as you want it.

5. WATCH WHAT YOU SAY: Developing effective communication

Tell the truth. Be kind. A little goes a long way. Speakcarefully. Emphasize the positive. Say good things,especially to yourself. Be aware of your effect on others. Don’t assume you’re being understood check it out. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, apologize, face to face ifpossible so you can look the other person in the eye. Don’t interrupt. Don’t give advice unless you’re asked. Don’t gossip. It wastes time you could be using to empower yourself. Choose your battles. If someone gets angry at you, stop doing whatever triggers them no matter how right you think you are, until you can find a better way to communicate. Why make yourself a target? Know when to shut up or decline to answer. Watch what you listen to. Don’t dismiss different points of view. Pay attention not only to what someone says try to understand why they’re saying it. Don’t put up with disrespect, manipulation or negative thinking from anyone, including yourself.

6. DON’T KEEP SCORE: Setting your own standards

Life isn’t about success or failure. Although both teach valuable lessons, fulfilling your potential is the essential goal. Adversity can develop strength. If a dream sours, let it go without judgment or remorse. Assume it’s no longer relevant, and look for new options. Even a losing battle can be a stepping-stone to a better situation. Accepting change brings peace of mind.

7. NO VICTIMS, NO VILLAINS: Every situation brings exactly what you need to wake up

Relationships are like jigsaw puzzles. All the pieces fit together to create the whole. You are not responsible for anyone else, nor are they for you. There’s no guilt, no blame, no shame. Allow things to be as they are. Accept each moment as if you’d chosen it.If someone hurts you, look for what you can learn from it. Holding a grudge drains your energy. Forgiveness doesn’t mean it was okay with you; it means releasing the person’s power to upset you. You may never forget, but letting go of resentment is more productive. This goes double for forgiving yourself.

8. MEDITATE AND TREAT YOURSELF WELL: Nurture yourself

Make time to have fun and enjoy life. Take walks in nature. Spend time alone. Exercise, rest and eat when you need to, and drink lots of water. Something as simple as a warm bath or good stretch can do wonders in improving your perspective. Laugh. Let yourself dream your fondest dreams. Celebrate your successes, big and small. Meditation calms your conscious thinking mind, and helps you access your inner wisdom. Counting your breaths is the basic form, or you can silently repeat a soothing word or phrase like “peace” or “well-being.” When your mind wanders, and it will, just bring your focus back and start over. Even ten minutes a day can make a difference.

9. GET OUTSIDE HELP: See beyond your blind spots

Get counseling, either by yourself or with family members. It helps to talk about your feelings, no matter how embarrassing, strange or awful they seem to you. Findsomeone you trust and feel compatible with, and be willing to pour your heart out. An objective outsider can clear up confusion and help you set your creative energy free. Examine both sides of any issue. Don’t follow advice blindly, but do explore ideas that make sense to you to seewhat happens. Join a group of people with similar interests or circumstances to yours. Try art, sports, music, or dance for fun and/or therapy. Read self-help books. Most have at least some helpful nuggets, and can reassure you that you’re not alone. Don’t expect The Answer, but serve yourself a variety of ideas to take or leave as you like.

10. MOVE ON: Graduate to living fully

Respect your own boundaries. Your first commitment should be to yourself and to learning as much as possible from what happens to you. Only when you’re at peace with yourself can you make a real contribution to anyone. Live your own truth, be honorable, and intend the best for everyone, including yourself. Trying to change someone is futile, no matter how much you care, or how badly you think they need it. You have no control over what anyone else feels or thinks. Do what you can, and do your best, but not at your own expense. Working things through can be healing when there’s mutual respect, but if you feel hopeless, scapegoated, threatened or frantic, retreat may be the only appropriate choice, at least for the moment. It could be as basic as leaving the room briefly, or as extreme as ending the relationship or moving away. But be open to the possibility that the “problem” person may surprise you. Your changes alter the context of the relationship, so eventually they may come to treat you differently. If so, you may want to renew the relationship, but don’t rush into it until you’re confident that things have changed. To leave your mark on future generations, pass along what you learn.

I wish you healing, faith and the courage to make your dreams come true.

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Suzanne Gold (MA, Psychology), “The Family Fixer,” (Pacific Sun) is a life counselor, spiritual coach, teacher, and author of Daddy’s Girls, Gold Medal winner in ForeWord Magazine’s Book of the Year Awards. Herself the survivor of a dysfunctional family, Suzanne teaches workshops, college seminars, and in private practice. She has worked in psychiatric and drug treatment centers, taught meditation, and co-founded a self-help group for women in public housing. An award-winning vocalist, Suzanne sang the National Anthem at San Francisco’s Candlestick Park before a crowd of 25,000 Giants fans. For more information, go to http://www.SuzanneGold.com or email Suzanne@SuzanneGold.com

REUNITING YOUR ANCIENT MEMORIES WITH THE NOW

REUNITING YOUR ANCIENT MEMORIES WITH THE NOW

You have been conquered through division and distraction. The only way to change this force in your life is to change how you view it. First you were taught to place your life into 24 hour segments, which was divided into school time, work time, and play time. By doing that you took something that was supposed to be continuous and beautiful and gave that beauty to a controlling monster called authority and time management. Once you had divided your life into those compartments, you then were taught to go internal and see things as either good or bad. This totally divided how you saw yourself in terms of trying to be good but occasionally thought, said or did bad things. Where did that leave you? If you had done thirteen good things but four bad ones for that day, how did you define yourself?

That wasn’t enough, but then you were taught to divide yourselves by how much money you had in the bank or how many nice things you had. It made sense then to divide you by the color of your skin or what belief systems you embraced. Finally, it became necessary to make sure you could not survive without “authority” telling you what to do, so they divided you by your sex. That was done to ensure that your soul would be divided, as well. Initially, the idea of exploring a feminine role verses a more masculine role worked very well. Each gave you different perspectives on life and relationships. But once the world became imbalanced with the masculine trying to control the feminine, the division grew even stronger and the whole world suffered.

We would ask that you start by not dividing your life into those compartments. You do not want to see that you are working at something from 9-5 everyday and then have your “time off” to do what you want to. Do you really want to look back over the last year and say that you spent over 2,100 hours of that year in something that was miserable? You greatly define what you expect out of life by statements like that. Obviously you are willing to be miserable for the “security” of having a pay check. In the end, that pay check may bury your body, but what will the cost to your soul be? How many happy moments (not hours) did you experience in that lifetime?

You do not want to divide your thoughts and actions between good and bad. If you do that you will be continuously spending as much energy judging what you’ve said or done and then punishing yourself for it as the initial thought itself. This, also, teaches you to judge others by their actions or words as good or bad, knowing full well you cannot react to something unless it also resides in you somewhere. Of course it does exist as you all have the capacity to answer to a wide variety of choices in a full range of reactions and emotions. Would you want someone to judge you by one word or one sentence for the rest of your life? It’s totally ineffective.

Good and bad is also reflective in how you react to those lovely teaching situations that happen often in your life. Would you say that something was bad if a lot of good came from it? How would you determine how much bad was needed for the judgment and how much good would need to be there?

It seems a little silly to say someone is successful simply based on the amount of things they’ve acquired. Instead it would seem to be better to look at the quality of life instead of quantity. Anyone can acquire things, it’s tougher to be happy in all of it and not let those things distract you. Often we hear people saying they are happy, but in their hearts they fear loosing their things and then possibly losing those people who are in their lives too.

If you could see all the different types of beings that exist in the worlds all around you and in other universes you would not get so caught up in skin color. To us that’s like one group of ants passing another group of ants and the one group thinking they are superior because their antennas point a certain way. They’re all ants. So you are all of the same type of energy no matter what kind of package you’ve chosen this time. Each one is carefully selected before birth knowing that package and family would determine what direction you would start out with. Each package (body) allows you an opportunity to try on a new costume on a new stage.

The idea of allowing beings the chance to divide themselves inside by choosing to accentuate either male or female was, in the beginning, an experiment. The idea was to see how the parts worked separately with the hopes they would come together and incorporate bringing the best of both worlds. Instead, it became necessary for the “authority” to control the feminine in order to make sure they could determine outcomes. What they didn’t realize is they also upset the natural order to things and as people became imbalanced, eventually Mother Earth followed. You cannot shut down essential parts of yourself like fingers, toes and feet and think that you could possibly run. You’d be lucky to just be able to stand.

The only way to bring all those parts back into a whole, which is what everyone is trying to do, is by first letting go of all of those segments and compartments. In its place see yourself and your life as being one river flowing together effortlessly. The river intuitively knows where it needs to go and is not stopped by things that would block its flow. It knows how to go around those things and actually incorporate them into the whole flow. Those of you who have gotten stuck in the sand on the side of the river or are hanging for dear life on one of those large rocks in the middle I would say, LET GO. See that you are one with everything around, above, and inside of you. Let go of anything that holds you back and does not allow you to feel the incredible joy of existing and being part of the river.

Look at those things you do not like to do and release them. Either find someone else to do them, or another way to accomplish your desire. If it’s your job, quit and what you really want or need will appear in your life. If it’s based on things, let go of them. Keep only what you need for they tend to own you very quickly. Simplify your life. If it’s a relationship, let them go, knowing you cannot wait on them any longer. If they are to be part of your life they will let go also and follow you. If not, they have someone else planted in their journey as you do.

Change your thoughts and words by not including good and bad. Instead, see everything as working perfectly, effortlessly for you. See that everything that happens to you in your daily life is a gift no matter what type of package it comes in. Give thanks for the gift and decide if you want to keep it or not. Look in wonderment at the beautiful way nature intuitively knows how to take care of itself and still has time to communicate and connect. Above all give thanks for the things you do have in order to receive what the Universe wants to send your way.

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Ahhh It’s YOU!

This clip could easily be called how to be a great leader or how to be a great parent!
Non verbal communication is 80-93% of everything we communicate – if you don’t know that and work with it, people may think you are insincere, untrustworthy and shifty! Watch how to make yourself congruent in all situations – it will help you in sales, relatipnships, leadership, parenting and every other aspect of life!

Louise Hay on thoughts

Louise Hay gives brief insights for more joyful living.

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An inborn core of health exists within every person. Over the years, the core becomes covered by layers of conditioning and distortion from negativities in life. These layers are expressed into the body, mind, emotions, and into the world.

Discovery that each of us has Perfect Moments – the experienced essence of Pure Energy – provides a solid starting source and reference point, natural in each of us.  You can easily expand this pure energy into beneficial RESULTS. Because this is inborn, the clarity easily becomes a natural expression of us flowing into positive, powerful, healthy and creative ways of living.

Core Health is a non-cultural, non-religious expansion of our inborn core of health. This innovative process moves beyond “treating symptoms” and beyond “tapping” on acupoints to Truly Freeing each individual by internal energetic decisions: Deeply ~ Thoroughly ~ Quickly.

Johan Miller, Core Health Facilitator

Emotional Energy – Emotional Competency

What is Emotional Energy?

What is Emotional Energy? from Stephen Barth on Vimeo.

Managing your Emotional EnergyStephen Barth, Emotional Energy

According to workplace research, 80% of your success is dependent upon your emotional competencies…, flexibility, empathic listening, the ability to build a consensus, etc; but too often our negative emotional energy gets in the way. Negative reactions waste emotional energy. Today’s culture of conflict and negativity thrives on negative reactions and drives destructive behavior, eroding relationships and organizations. Managing your Emotional Energy is a discipline that discovers and builds upon your fundamental foundation to create positive, Stabilizing Pro-actions™. This powerful presentation sets you on the path to manage, direct and manifest positive emotional responses enhancing personal and professional outcomes.

Learning Outcomes

  • Identify emotional competency gaps and acquire skills to fill them
  • Have the tools to build a personal and professional foundation
  • Re-script the subconscious to bring about powerful internal change
  • Develop effective emotional competencies with daily reminders to transition from reactive to proactive responses

Stephen Barth.com

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An inborn core of health exists within every person. Over the years, the core becomes covered by layers of conditioning and distortion from negativities in life. These layers are expressed into the body, mind, emotions, and into the world.

Discovery that each of us has Perfect Moments – the experienced essence of Pure Energy – provides a solid starting source and reference point, natural in each of us.  You can easily expand this pure energy into beneficial RESULTS. Because this is inborn, the clarity easily becomes a natural expression of us flowing into positive, powerful, healthy and creative ways of living.

Core Health is a non-cultural, non-religious expansion of our inborn core of health. This innovative process moves beyond “treating symptoms” and beyond “tapping” on acupoints to Truly Freeing each individual by internal energetic decisions: Deeply ~ Thoroughly ~ Quickly.

Johan Miller, Core Health Facilitator

Walking Meditation

By Neale Donald Walsch

There are many people who find it extremely difficult to sit in silent meditation. For them, it may seem as if the “art of meditation” is something that is lost to them. I felt this way for a long time, because I am an impatient person by nature, and sitting in silent meditation was not a thing I tolerated well. Then someone introduced me to Walking Meditation, and everything changed for me around the idea of “meditation.” Suddenly, it was something I could do.

The first thing that happened when I learned about Walking Meditation is that my whole idea about what meditation IS completely vanished, to be replaced by a much more clear and concise picture of what was going on. For me, meditation always meant “clearing the mind of everything,” leaving the space for “the emptiness” to appear, so that I could move in consciousness into “the nothingness that is The All…”, or something like that.

What I was supposed to be trying to do, I thought, was “empty my mind.” I was supposed to try to sit in one place, close my eyes, and “think of nothing.” This made me crazy, because my mind never turns off! It is always thinking, thinking, thinking of something. So I was never very good at sitting with my legs crossed, closing my eyes, and concentrating on The Nothing. Frustrated, I hardly ever meditated-and envied those who said they did (although I secretly wondered whether they really did, or simply went through the motions, doing no better than I was able to do).

Then a master teacher in my life told me that I had entirely the wrong idea of what meditation was about. Meditation, she said, was not about emptiness, it was about focus. Instead of trying to sit still and think about nothing, she suggested that I do a “walking meditation,” and move about, stopping to focus on specific things that my eyes would light upon.

“Consider a blade of grass,” she would say. “Consider it. Look at it closely. Regard it intently. Consider every aspect of it. What does it look like? What are its specific characteristics? What does it feel like? What is its fragrance? What is its size, compared to you? Look at it closely. What does it tell you about Life?”

Then, she said, “Experience the grass in its Completeness. Take off your shoes and socks and walk on the grass in your bare feet. Think of nothing else but your feet. Focus your attention on the bottom of your feet and consider immensely exactly what you are feeling there. Tell your mind to feel nothing else, just for that moment. Ignore all other incoming data except the data coming from the bottom of your feet. Close your eyes, if this helps.

“Walk slowly and deliberately, allowing each slow and gentle step to tell you about the grass. Then open your eyes and look at all of the grass around you. Ignore all other incoming data except the data about the grass, coming from your eyes and feet.

“Now focus on your sense of smell, and see if you can smell the grass. Ignore all other incoming data except the data about the grass coming from your nose, your eyes, and your feet. See if you can focus your attention in this way. If you can, you will experience the grass as you may never have experienced it before. You will know more about grass than you ever knew before, at a deeper level. You will never experience it in the same way again. You will realize that you have been ignoring the grass your whole life.”

Then, my master teacher said, do the same thing with a flower. “Consider it. Look at it closely. Regard it intently. Consider every aspect of it. What does it look like? What are its specific characteristics? What does it feel like? What is its fragrance? What is its size, compared to you? Look at it closely. What does it tell you about Life?”

Then, she said, “Experience the flower in its Completeness. Bring it to your nose and smell it once more. Think of nothing else but your nose. Focus your attention on your nose and consider immensely exactly what you are experiencing there. Tell your mind to experience nothing else, just for that moment. Ignore all other incoming data except the data coming from your nose. Close your eyes, if this helps.

“Now focus on your sense of touch, and touch the flower carefully. Touch the flower at the same time as you smell the flower. Ignore all other incoming data except the data about the flower coming from your fingertips and your nose. Now, open your eyes and look closely at the flower. See if you can still smell the flower, now that it is far enough away for you to look at it and touch it. See if you can focus your attention in this way. If you can, you will experience the flower as you may never have experienced it before. You will know more about the flower than you ever knew before, at a deeper level. You will never experience it in the same way again. You will realize that you have been ignoring the flowers your whole life.”

Then, she said, do the same thing with a tree. Walk over to a tree and consider it. “Look at it closely. Regard it intently. Consider every aspect of it. What does it look like? What are its specific characteristics? What does it feel like? What is its fragrance? What is its size, compared to you? Look at it closely. What does it tell you about Life?”

And she said, “Experience the tree in its Completeness. Place you hands upon it and feel it totally. Think of nothing else but your hands. Focus your attention on your hands and consider immensely exactly what you are experiencing there. Tell your mind to experience nothing else, just for that moment. Ignore all other incoming data except the data coming from your hands. Close your eyes, if this helps.

“Now focus on your sense of smell, and smell the tree. Continue touching the tree at the same time as you smell the tree. Ignore all other incoming data except the data about the tree coming from your fingertips and your nose. Now, open your eyes and look closely at the tree. Look up at it, and see if you can climb in consciousness to its top. See if you can still smell the tree, now that it is far enough away for you to look at it. Keep touching it. See if you can focus your attention in this way. If you can, you will experience the tree as you may never have experienced it before. You will know more about the tree than you ever knew before, at a deeper level. You will never experience it in the same way again. You will realize that you have been ignoring the treesyour whole life.”

“Now, step away from the tree and lose all physical contact with it. See if you can bring to your mind the experience of the tree as you stand and look at it from father away. Experience it completely. Do not be surprised if you can smell the tree, even from a distance. Do not be surprised if you can, in a sense, even `feel’ the tree from where you are. What has happened is that you have opened yourself to the vibration of the tree. You are `catching the vibe.’ See how far back you can step from the tree and still retain `contact.’ When you lose touch with the experience of the tree, move closer in, move back to it. See if this helps you regain contact.

“This exercise will help you develop your ability to focus your attention on whatever you want to experience at a heightened level.”

“Now, walk. Walk wherever you live. In the country, in the city, it does not matter. Walk slowly, but deliberately. And look around you. Let your eyes fall where they may. As your eyes find something, focus the fullness of your attention upon it. It can be anything. A garbage truck. A stop sign. A crack in the sidewalk, a pebble by the road. Look at it closely, right from where you are. Regard it intently. Consider every aspect of it. What does it look like? What are its specific characteristics? What does it feel like, from where you are? What is its fragrance? Can you sense that from where you are? What is its size, compared to you? Look at it closely. What does it tell you about Life?”

“Continue your walk. Pick out three things on your walk to consider in this way. This walk should take you at least a half hour. You cannot consider three things fully in less time, at first. Later, you will be able to consider something fully in just a moment, in a nonno-second. But now, you are just practicing.

“This is Walking Meditation, and what you are doing is training your mind to stop ignoring everything you are experiencing. You are training your mind to focus on a particular aspect of your experience, so that you may experience it completely.”

Practice Walking Meditation in this way for three weeks, my master teacher told me, and “you will never experience life the same way again.” Then, take the final step in Walking Meditation. Walk outside-or inside, for that matter. You can actually walk anywhere. From the bedroom to the kitchen will do. There is plenty to see, plenty to touch, plenty to experience. You can spend three hours with the carpet alone-and “this time do not pick out any particular part of what you are seeing or encountering. Try to encounter all of it. Seek to embrace all of it. Attempt to focus on all of it at the same time.

“Take in the Big Picture. Close your eyes at first, if this helps. Smell what you are smelling, hear what you are hearing, feel whatever you are `feeling’ of the space around you. Then open your eyes and add sight. See everything you are seeing, and nothing in particular. See All Of It. Smell All Of It. Feel All Of It. If this begins to overwhelm you, refocus on a Part Of It, so that you do not lose your psychic balance.

“With enough practice, you will soon be able to walk into any space or place and begin to experience All Of It at some level. You have heightened your Awareness. You are raised your consciousness. You have expanded your ability to be Present, fully, in the Moment.

“Now, do this with your eyes closed and while you are sitting down, and you have Silent Mediation. Boom. It is as simple as that.”

© 2010 ReCreation Foundation – http://www.cwg.org – Neale Donald Walsch is a modern day spiritual messenger whose words continue to touch the world in profound ways. His With God series of books has been translated into 27 languages, touching millions of lives and inspiring important changes in their day-to-day lives.

Being Versus Having Potential

By Jennifer Hoffman

We all have potential, which is the limitless field of possibilities that we can create our life from. Our potential is the small voice of our heart which calls us to explore opportunities, to create a reality from a long held dream, to become the powerful, joyful person we know we can be. But unless we are able to step into our potential, it simply exists as a possibility in our life, something that we can have at some point in the future when we are ready to change. To embrace our potential we must be willing to ‘be’ whatever it is calling us to become.

Many of us are stuck at the point of having potential, we know that there is something better for us and a way to live that is happier than what we have, we just don’t know how to connect to it. Our fears, doubts, uncertainty and confusion stop us from taking the leap of faith that will propel us into a different future. Even if we are unhappy, living the life we know is better than stepping into something so uncertain and unknown that when we can’t find a solid foundation to step onto, we ignore its call.

But being our potential does not give any guarantees either. After all, it is potential, meaning that its form is shadowy at best. Because potential calls us to become, it means putting our dreams out in the open, exposing our heart’s desire to a critical, unforgiving world. What if we fail, what if no one likes us, what if we do not find any appreciation for our new self? What if we do not like what we have chosen? What do we do then? Do we make mistakes when we become our potential?

This is the critical point for potential, when we can separate ourselves from the belief that if someone approves of our potential, then we have made the right decision. Because once we step into our potential, we also challenge others to step into theirs. And they may be critical, but that is because they are receiving their own inner call to become their potential. If we could take one aspect of potential that calls to us and give it all of our effort, become what it is calling us to do, then we would take that first step and be on the path to allowing our confidence and trust lead us on a journey that would unfold into a life of being who we are from the soul level, embracing our power and giving ourselves permission to be the potential our heart knows is possible and true for us. Be the potential you know you have and allow your life to unfold for you in new, different, unknown, uncertain and miraculous ways.

Copyright ©2010 by Jennifer Hoffman and Enlightening Life OmniMedia, Inc. This material is protected by US and international copyright now and may be distributed freely in its entirety as long as the author’s name and website,www.urielheals.com are included.